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3 Steps to Take When You First Find Out You’re Being Sued

Robert Stahle • October 22, 2019
Three people are sitting at a table looking at a piece of paper

Learning that you’re being sued is news that nobody wants to hear. You might have an inkling that it’s going to happen, but nothing really prepares you for the moment when the process server knocks on your door. Once those papers land in your hand, emotions can run high, and you might not know what to do next.

It’s easier said than done but if you’re being sued, the last thing you want to do is overreact. The legal situation isn’t going to get resolved by getting yourself worked up over it. The best thing you can do is take a deep breath, allow yourself to recover from the emotional reaction, and then approach your next steps calmly and strategically.


Priority One: Contact an Attorney

If you’ve found out you’re being sued, the very first step on your list is to contact an attorney right away. In most cases, you have a very limited timeframe in which to respond to a lawsuit. It’s important that you contact an attorney sooner rather than later – even if you don’t think the lawsuit will gain any traction – because in this case, time is of the essence.

At attorney will meet with you soon after you contact them to provide you with a consultation and begin investigating the details of the case against you. While a civil suit is different from criminal charges, it’s still smart to not discuss the lawsuit with anyone without legal representation present.


Understand the Case Against You

It might seem counterintuitive to contact an attorney before you have all the necessary information about your case, but you and your attorney can work together to uncover all the details you need. You can get a head start on this by gathering any documentation that you might have regarding the incident in question. For example, if there were any email or text correspondences between you and the person filing the suit against you, or if you have any contracts or other documents that pertain to the case. If you’re worried that electronic communications have been deleted, speak with your attorney about whether or not you should try to have them recovered.


Proceed with Caution

When you’re thinking “I’m being sued, now what?”, it’s tempting to talk to others about your case, and this includes the litigating party’s attorney in hopes of resolving the whole issue before it goes to court. It’s important to not say anything that will lead to an admittance of guilt or might be perceived as such. The good news here is that with the help of an experienced attorney, chances are you’ll never see the courtroom either way.


Don’t Wait Another Day to Speak with an Attorney About Your Case

As mentioned earlier, time isn’t on your side when you’re being sued. The sooner you connect with an attorney, the better your chances of leaving this all behind and coming out unscathed. When you need expert legal representation in the Siouxland area, we’re here to help. Reach out to the experienced team at the Fitch & Stahl Law Office for a consultation today.


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Including Dram Shop Liability
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How a Sioux City Personal Injury Attorney Can Help You Seek Justice Each year, drunk driving crashes leave thousands injured or killed—causing devastating emotional, physical, and financial consequences. Despite strict DUI laws and public awareness campaigns, impaired drivers continue to pose a serious threat across Iowa, Nebraska, and the country. For victims, the aftermath of a drunk driving accident is more than just painful—it can be life-altering. At Fitch & Stahle Law Firm , we fight to hold negligent drivers (and sometimes even the businesses that served them) accountable under the law. If you’ve been hurt in a crash involving a drunk driver, we’ll explain your legal options, including how Nebraska’s Dram Shop law may play a role in your case. Why File a Drunk Driving Lawsuit? Driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs is not just illegal—it’s a reckless act that endangers everyone on the road. When a driver chooses to get behind the wheel impaired, they can (and should) be held civilly liable for the damage they cause. While a criminal DUI case focuses on punishing the offender, a civil personal injury lawsuit is about helping you rebuild. It allows you to pursue compensation for: Medical expenses (past and future) Lost wages and diminished earning capacity Pain and suffering Emotional trauma Property damage Rehabilitation costs Punitive damages (in cases of extreme recklessness) Nebraska’s Dram Shop Law: Holding Alcohol Providers Accountable Under Nebraska’s Dram Shop Law , victims of drunk driving accidents may also be able to file a lawsuit against the business or establishment that overserved the intoxicated driver. Here’s how it works: A licensed alcohol vendor (such as a bar, restaurant, or event venue) can be held liable if they served alcohol to a visibly intoxicated person or a minor , and that person later caused injury or death. Nebraska law limits these claims to commercial sellers of alcohol—not social hosts. A dram shop claim can help recover damages if the drunk driver lacks adequate insurance or personal assets. This area of law is complex, and not all attorneys are familiar with how to navigate the strict requirements and timelines involved in dram shop litigation. That’s why working with a firm like Fitch & Stahle , which handles cases in both Nebraska and Iowa , is crucial. What Needs to Be Proven in a Drunk Driving Case? To recover damages in a drunk driving lawsuit, your legal team must prove the following: Duty of care – The driver had a legal responsibility to drive safely. Breach of duty – That responsibility was violated by driving impaired. Causation – The impairment directly led to the accident and your injuries. Damages – You experienced real harm—such as medical costs, lost income, or emotional distress. In dram shop cases, your lawyer will also need to demonstrate that the bar or establishment served a visibly intoxicated individual who went on to cause the crash. Why You Need a DUI Injury Lawyer in Nebraska or Iowa Drunk driving cases are rarely straightforward—especially when multiple parties may share liability. Insurance companies will often try to minimize payouts, shift blame, or dispute your injuries altogether. At Fitch & Stahle Law Firm , we will: Preserve key evidence such as police reports, BAC results, surveillance video, and eyewitness accounts Analyze potential dram shop liability Work with medical and accident reconstruction experts to build your case Identify all available sources of compensation Aggressively negotiate with insurance companies—or take your case to trial if needed Our team has deep experience with Nebraska’s unique dram shop provisions and Iowa’s liability standards. We understand what it takes to hold all negligent parties accountable. What Damages Can You Recover? Depending on the specifics of your case, compensation may include: Economic damages : Medical bills, lost income, future treatment costs, property loss Non-economic damages : Pain, suffering, mental anguish, loss of companionship Punitive damages : Intended to punish especially reckless conduct—like drunk driving In cases where dram shop liability applies, these claims can be especially valuable when the at-fault driver is underinsured or has no assets. Time Is Critical – Act Now In Nebraska, the statute of limitations for personal injury and dram shop lawsuits is typically four years , but specific timelines may apply depending on the facts of your case. Evidence like surveillance footage and eyewitness memories can fade fast—so it’s essential to speak with an attorney right away. Get Help from a Sioux City Personal Injury Attorney Who Understands Nebraska Dram Shop Law If you or a loved one has been injured by a drunk driver—especially one who may have been overserved at a Nebraska bar or restaurant—you have the right to seek full and fair compensation. At Fitch & Stahle Law Firm , we’ve helped countless clients across Sioux City , Iowa , and Nebraska recover after devastating crashes. We’ll handle the legal details so you can focus on healing. Call us today for a free consultation — and let’s start fighting for the justice you deserve.